I'll be the first to say it. You all already know that I'm fine with pointing a light on that unpopular opinion. 🔦
In this day and age, anything goes. I mean ANYTHING, and everything.
So, you have to figure out what your standards are.
✅️What are your boundaries?
✅️What is your definition?
✅️What does it look like for you?
Then, you have to have these discussions to connect with the right person who shares the save beliefs, ideals, & desires for their life.
🤔What is commitment?
🤔How do you get to that point? How is it confirmed that you are in a committed relationship?
🤔What does it look like for you & what would you like to happen in your committed relationship?
You NEED to know these answers before you even, date, court, or whatever term you use to explain spending time with someone you are interested in.
💥Nurse Dei-ism: Cuz bay-bay these folks will tell you anythang! Social media always tries to define everything.
When I say any thing goes...there are NO rules.
So you have to HAVE to🗣HAAAVVE to decide what you want & only connect with someone who matches that energy.
These folks out here just out here.
Walking out the house, no see ya later or nothing
On the phone with their exes all night
Showing their whole 😻 & 🍆 to everybody calling them "just a friend"
Kee keeing in everybody face
Hugged up & grinding on the next one
Showing every crack & crevice
Letting everybody see all of the largest organ of the body (skin 🤭) with just a lil tap of cotton in place
Cause 🗣" I AIN'T MARRIED YET! AINT NO RING ON THIS FINGER!"
🗣"YOU DON'T OWN ME! THIS RING DON'T MEAN 💩!"
Basically, married and single people are saying the same things. Basically, they wanna do what they wanna do regardless of the relationship status.
Which is fine actually.
IF that is what commitment looks like for you. Find some body who matches that energy.
If that wasn't how you described commitment and you said you wanted what they wanted, BUT when you want to do what you want to do you switch it up....yo energy stank.🤢
Be mad. I don't care. I don't align with stank energy anyway.😁 I know what I say is not for you. 🤷🏾♀️